Friday, July 31, 2026

Happy Camper

Dear Mackenzie,

When I asked you if you wanted to go to camp last summer, you said no because you wanted to stay home with me. You and I then had a fun and relaxing few weeks together taking walks, reading, making crafts, baking and just hanging out. Your siblings love camp, though, and I wanted you to experience it, too, so I signed you up for camp this summer. When I told you, you cried because you didn't want to go. A few days before camp started last month, you told me you were nervous and scared. Fast forward to today, which is your last day of camp, and you are so sad that it's ending and already looking forward to returning next summer!

When you came home on the first day of camp, the first thing you chirped when you waked through the door was, "It was so fun!" You loved every minute of it and couldn't wait to tell me about swimming, cooking class (you made apple dumplings), arts and crafts, science and the friends you'd already made. You went to camp for four weeks and each day, you came home with the biggest smile on your face. You had a blast learning how to swim, making bracelets in arts and crafts, riding the go-karts, learning different styles of dance in drama and cooking things like monkey bread and latkes. You made friends with several girls in your group and really liked your counselors. By the end of the first week, you already asked if you could go back next summer!

Every Friday at camp, they celebrate counselors and campers who have exhibited generosity, empathy and kindness. On your first Friday, you were recognized for being a helpful camper. And then last Friday, your head counselor Leah actually called me to tell me how amazing you'd been at camp that day. There is an Adventure Park ropes course at camp (I've seen it and it's pretty high up!) and Leah said that you'd really stepped out of your comfort zone when you went on it. She said your feet were shaking on the bridges but you looked so determined and you completed the entire course! She said everyone was cheering you on and that they were all so proud of you! She also added that you are "an absolute joy to have in the group," that you are a "sweet, sweet girl" and that you are a "tough cookie." Daddy and I met Leah at Visiting Day yesterday and when we told her we are your parents, she said, "Mackenzie is amazing. Good job, Mom and Dad!" I am so proud of you, Kenziebear!

I am also proud of how much you learned in the pool these past few weeks! You started camp not knowing how to swim at all and when Daddy and I visited you yesterday, we watched in amazement as you effortlessly glided in the water and floated on your back. You looked to comfortable and confident in the water. You are a rock star!

I'm so happy that your first camp experience was such a positive one. I hope you have many more memorable camp summers!

Love,
Mom


Friday, July 24, 2026

A Flurry of Kisses

Dear Mackenzie,

You were waiting for the bus this morning when you suddenly pointed both of your hands in my direction and yelled, "Mama! I'm sending you one thousand kisses! Pshew! Pshew! Pshew!" I pretended to be hit and stumbled backward and you said, "Here come one thousand more!!" We continued this game for a few more minutes, even as people walked by our house and saw us, haha! You are so much fun!

Love,
Mom

Monday, July 20, 2026

Sweet and Salty

Dear Mackenzie,

As one of four kids, you are often competing with your siblings for my attention. You were trying to talk to me this morning but I was talking to Second GuhGaw. You cheerfully called out, "Mama! Mama!" But then you got impatient, your big smile changed into an angry frown and you growled, "Mama!" in a deep gravelly voice. Sheesh, Jekyll & Hyde much?

Love,
Mom

Sunday, July 5, 2026

New Noona

Dear Mackenzie,

We went to my friends' barbeque over the weekend and there were a lot of kids there. The youngest was a little two-year-old boy named Ji Hu and you were instantly smitten. For a majority of the day, you followed him around, played with him and even got him cups of water so he wouldn't be thirsty. At dinner, you asked to sit next to him. You were so sweet and attentive! I think you really enjoyed taking care of him and by the end of the day, he was calling you Noona, which is Korean for older sister/older female friend. So cute!

Love,
Mom

Friday, July 3, 2026

The Tooth of the Matter

Dear Mackenzie,

You've never believed in the Tooth Fairy. Your friend, however, does think that the Tooth Fairy is real and when she saw you yesterday and noticed that you'd lost your front tooth, she asked you what the Tooth Fairy had brought you. When you didn't answer right away, your friend's nanny noticed and immediately said, "Because she is real." You caught on right away and fibbed, "She forgot to come to my house. She'll probably come tonight." I am proud of you for being so intuitive and protecting your friend's feelings. So mature!

Love,
Mom

Wednesday, June 24, 2026

Super Saucy

Dear Mackenzie,

Second GuhGaw and I were talking about the show The Simpsons yesterday and he was surprised when I told him that Bart Simpson is actually voiced by a woman. He asked why that was and I explained that Bart is supposed to be 10 years old, so a grown woman sounds more like a little boy than a grown man. You chimed in, "Mama, you sound like you're in the middle. You're not like {switches to low, gruff voice}, 'Give me the sauce!' But you're not like {switches to high-pitched voice}, 'Give me the sauce!' You're in the middle: {switches to a moderate tone} Give me the sauce!" Hahaha! Your explanation was funny enough but "give me the sauce?!" Why is that the phrase you went with??

Love,
Mom

Tuesday, June 23, 2026

Missing Mackenzie

Dear Mackenzie,

We are transferring you to a new school in the fall, which you have known about for awhile and are actually excited about because you already have several friends from nursery school and pre-k who already go there. You have broken the news to your friends at your current school and they are sad but I know their moms and can plan play dates with them. The person who took the news the hardest was Ms. Deep, the aide who loves playing with you every day and always gushes about you when she sees me. I told her today and this was her reaction: "What? Mackenzie is not coming back? No. You cannot take my Mackenzie. You can take another girl, you can even take Sawyer*, but you cannot take my Mackenzie." Hahaha!

Love,
Mom

*Yeah, let's not tell Second GuhGaw she said this, eep!